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it is nice to be back. Well it has been a while since I last posted. No. It’s not just a while. A year has already passed by :D
there's a lot of BAD things that had happened since Jan1 up to yesterday, what a way to start a new year right? Well,those BAD things i've been through recently is not worth making an entry... so I will not bother sharing them.. I want to carry on with hopes in life.hahaha..
I just want to share something that i have realized earlier.. Eversince i voluntary exited from seminary, believe it or not, almost every people around me has been asking for advices about his/her problems in family, money, chosen religion and.. yes.. love ( i mean what the *bleep*)
Ok lang ba kayo? Galing kaya ako seminaryo, mas marami akong mga struggles sa loob. As if naman very good adviser na ko? But of course i don't want them to be disappointed and to be more hopeless, who knows, God must be using me to ease their pain, hahah
but first, why the hell do i give advices?
Little do you know that i have been using my blog as well to give some pointers on how should one face his/her life in times of difficulties (blog #3) Because I want to be a part of other's journey. Well, I could possibly view the problems in a different angle than you do but trust me i'm not doing this to make an impression i just want to help YOU. I want to make the most out of what i've learned from the seminary by sharing them in my own little way.
I'm here to support you.
Kaya sana basahin nyo mabuti mga naging entries ko, at sana makatulong ako kahit papano.
This time, i would like to concentrate on the unrequited (unanswered) love.
Lahat ata ng kakilala ko may problema dito... Lalo na siguro sa mga kaedaran ko, na syempre naghahanap na rin ng mga makakasama nila sa buhay. =D
These are sentimental thoughts coming only from a person who is in deep understanding of REJECTION. :)
First, the confession. If you really love him, the only solution is to let him know your feelings. Definitely you should hope for the best and be prepared for the worst . Express your feelings and make it sure that you convey him if he is not interested there should be no problem in your friendship and it should continue as it is. Friendship is probably the purest relation on earth and if it moves to the next step it happens to be the divinest. hahahha express your feeling & leave the rest to God :)
BUT
Sometimes when you give over importance to somebody( because you love him/her of course) the guy just starts taking you for granted. When this happens, the only thing one can do is to start ignoring him. Even if he is around just behave normally and don't acknowledge his presence at all.
Anyway even after so many attempts if he doesn't acknowledge your love then probably he doesn't deserve your wonderful love. Practice the ignorance act and if your earlier good deeds have impacted then that guy will approach you.
If he doesn't respond then probably, this is the right time to say good bye, maybe he is the not the proper person for you. I don't say he is bad I mean to say that probably both of you are not made for each other.
But of course, don't be in a sympathetic mode because you have not done anything wrong
Sometimes we need to set love free. If it is yours it will come back, if it doesn't, it was never yours
To let go is one of the biggest things in life. Let things happen their way, for everything happens for a reason.. and who knows there might be something/someone better that might be coming your way. Don't worry & trust yourself and of course... Trust God.
ok that' it for today :)
So if you have any problems about anything don't be afraid to approach me, you can email me aaronr.evangelista@yahoo.com, hahaha
